I feel like I’d like to re-state something I keep repeating and that’s about trusting your discernment. But in a way that doesn’t inadvertently hurt anyone in the process.
Discernment – it’s your biggest and best tool
I have said many, many times before this is the most powerful tool you posses. You know yourself better than anyone else. If you trust your gut instincts and use your discernment you won’t regret it.
So what do I mean about using it in such a way as not to hurt anyone?
Quite simply being respectful of others views, opinions, beliefs and experiences.
No two people are the same, no two people experience the same thing in the same situation. So to write off others beliefs and views based on THEIR experience can feel blunt and painful. Yes thats still a process to ask why do i feel hurt by that response and where is it stemming from. But there’s a line between being blunt and being rude.
I’m well known for being blunt. That’s me and it’s not going to change anytime soon and most people who know me seem to appreciate this. I will rip off the plaster and it will sting but you wouldn’t have asked me if you hadn’t wanted that insight.
If I go too far
If I’m ever unintentionally rude to someone I get called on it by my team. Pretty much instantly and I deal with it there and then. That’s on me not the other person no matter how triggered I’ve been by something they’ve said or written. My response is just that, mine. No-one else. I make a choice to behave or react in a certain way and that’s on me. I’m not going to cast on someone elses head. I will not play the victim when I have free will and CHOOSE to react.
And I’ll repeat this too – this page and what I write, speak and share is part of my work, on sorting my own energies out. Its simply part of the process for me.
No-one else, just me.
And I don’t share ALL of it, I can’t I don’t have permission. I share enough that those who need to see/understand it do. And it can spark deeper thought and investigation into things for others . It’s how it works for me. I read something, get a spark and go do my own work, thanking where the spark came from.
But if it resonates for someone else or sparks something thats great. It’s part of my role to be a challenger but also a way-shower of sorts. That’s what this pages and my groups are about – of not hiding, of standing in my power but also having solid boundaries and respecting them. Those it doesn’t resonate for have the option to scroll past, comment or if it’s too much leave the space. These are your choices not mine and they are always there.
Being compassionate is a choice
I acknowledge and accept that people are always going to have different viewpoints and beliefs. This is the norm after all of being human. It’s learning to respect the differences and appreciate that EVERYONE has a voice that deserves to be heard. If you don’t agree thats fine – agree to disagree and move on. I don’t have an issue with folk not agreeing with me. Hell there are times when I don’t agree with something I’ve said – vibrations shift and believes and perceptions move too. Who’s to say something I don’t agree with now I might agree with later.
I’m constantly learning and remembering who I am and what I’m here to do.
We all are.
How boring or flat would life be if we all thought, believed and experienced the same thing? I will always give people the space to express themselves and their beliefs. As I like to treat people the way I would like to be treated in return. But I will stop the conversation when it falls over into rudeness. You can tell the difference in energy immediately. And thats a boundary thing, either professional or personal.
Don’t forget I’m an empath so I can feel the energy behind what has been written and it jumps off the screen immediately….even if hidden under other wording. And I trust my discernment on this when it happens.
What kind of example would I be showing if I didn’t?
Try looking at it another way
Place 100 people in a room who work with dragon energy and they will all connect differently. They will all connect with different aspects of the energies depending on how they work, what they hold etc no 2 people in that room will experience the same thing.
So work and develop your discernment , be open to people having a different viewpoint and be humble enough to recognise no one person holds all the answers.
You are here to do your work first and foremost – so go do it. And be kind to others as it takes guts to put yourself out there…….
By jings I think I did it!!
I did a short live feed on this today and I THINK I’ve managed to sort it so you can see and hear it here. I have added subtitles make sure and click the CC button on the video itself.