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Everyone gets the wobbles

It’s true everyone gets the wobbles from time to time. Mine reared their heads a few days ago when all of a sudden I started seeing other people on social media talking about what I’ve been talking about for a long time.

Normally I don’t compare myself to others – I stopped doing that years ago. But something bubbled up to the surface , some old held insecurities of:

“I’m not good enough”

“what do I know” and

“oh god others are saying the same things now, no-one will or needs to listen to me”.

Admittedly it took a little while for all this to calm down but I accepted what had come up and knew in my heart they were old fears only.

I don’t actually feel like that and I’m consciously honouring myself and what I do. The first scary step was realising and admitting I’d been seriously undercharging for several of my services by only charging for HALF of the time and energy I actually dedicate to them.

It’s not simply the time for the session itself – what about all the aftercare? Nope hadn’t been seeking the right energy exchange.

Whoops!

That’s what can happen when you’re a giver.

These are big spaces, take a hell of a lot of energy and work and take me a while to come back from. So I’ve rectified it , a few months later than it perhaps should have been but it’s done. And you know what I’m not panicking, it feels right.

So back to these wobbles – they help keep me grounded if you can believe it. My team will never allow me to inflate my perceived self-importance and by shaking my foundations every now and again it shows up anything that’s not quite right or could fall if shaken for a longer time….does that makes sense?

Unstable foundations means unstable platform……..or something along those lines.

It makes no difference if 1 or 10,000 people are saying the same thing the people who are meant to see or hear the message will do so through the channel thats right for them.

What I focussed on instead was how fantastic it was people were getting the same message at the same time to share. My doubts then calmed, and I was able to remove another layer of very deep seated fear and insecurities.

So when you get the wobbles don’t beat yourself up for it. It’s just another layer of clearing your energy and seeing how you deal with things you change.

We are still human – so breathe, take a moment to find your centre and then work through what pops up. You’ll feel better for it. I promise.

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