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Oracle card reading 3rd – 9th Dec 2018

Photo of Oracle card reading 3-9 December 2018
Oracle card reading 3-9 Dec 2018

Mon 3rd – Tue 4th: Alignment

Liking this a big bit as it’s all about balance for me. For some it’s coming back into alignment with yourself and the new energies following a recent shift – it takes time.

For some others you are either in or about to hit a shift of some sort and it can throw your balance off. So much so you may not know which way you are spinning.

Don’t panic it DOES calm down and you start to see where and what has changed in and around you. You can pick through the finer details when the room stops spinning so to speak.

You may even find what once felt right for you feels a little “off”. Give yourself permission to shake off or drop what feels out of balance for you. To walk away from whats out of frequency. Of listening TO YOUR GUT AND DISCERNMENT above all other things.

The more you can trust yourself the quicker these wobbles or shifts can transition.

I know I’ve been saying this for quite a while but it’s getting important to not only listen but to act on it – you won’t be given too many more nudges if you keep ignoring them.

Do what is right for you to get back to that feeling of balance – you’ll know exactly what it is when you ask yourself direct.

Wed 5th – Thur 6th : Healing

You’ll notice a strong theme with the 3 cards this week as the flow from one to the other very smoothly.

This is a short period of retreat or intense self care. To adjust to the changes and makes some form of sense – or have an understanding around them.

Some changes you will be making will feel harsh , hard or even very deeply conflicted. Take a small step back to see the bigger picture around you –
if you continue where you are will things change?
Can it be fixed?
Or is it better for all concerned to let it dissolve?

This can be letting go or situations or even people – and they may have caused hurt in the run up to this choice/change being made.

It’s very easy for me to sit and say their reaction says more about them than about you when I’m not the one feeling it. But I can empathise as we all go through periods of time like this. It’s our development and forwards motion.

So take TIME, rest, step back and let yourself heal emotionally, physically and energetically before you do anything else.

Think of this time as a deep breath before the next round. There is always light with the shadow when you look for it.

Fri 7th – Sun 9th: Infinite Possibilities

And the wheel turns once more.

Can you see the infinity loop in the card right at the centre? This is you – no really.

Life is full of ever possibility you can imagine and then some more. It’s your choice as to how you wish your life to go – a series of choices and directional changes. You make the best decision you can at the time.

Yes some may not go quite where you had planned, and you may need to make a quick change here and there but thats free will.

You have choice and control over your decisions. Never forget that – especially when others attempt to tell you differently.

Seize the moment, see everything spread out before you and go with what makes you jump up and down with excitement and glee. Anything that makes you sluggish, sad or flat ……perhaps not the route for you right now.

Work with the recent shifts and you may shock yourself with where you pick….and work with the New Moon energy on the 7th as its perfect for new directions, new paths, new ideas etc

Go for it.

Summary:

Start of the week
if you’ve been a bit wobbly or off balance you may start to find things coming back into focus. Or if still wobbly know that balance is just around the corner.
Finding your new alignment will take a bit of time so let things settle first , get comfortable with it and then see how others things have changed.

Mid week
take some time out to rest up, to retreat just for a short while and again come back into balance. If you’ve been emotionally hurt or upset by recent events allow yourself to feel them, ask where they actually stem from and do the work to embrace it, acknowledge it and allow it to dissolve so you can move on.
Use this time for intense self -care.

End of the week
work with the new moon energy and realise the world is your oyster right now. So many possibilities stretch out in front on you in an ever expanding pattern. Of what’s presented ask what truly makes you want to jump out of bed in the morning and get going? And do that.
Above all go for it if it feels the absolute right thing for you.

Decks used:

Divine Guidance – Cheryl Lee Harnish
Oracle of the DragonFae – Lucy Cavendish

Being triggered isn’t always a bad thing

No really I’m not kidding – being triggered can be a good thing. It’s the not reacting part that takes a bit of work. The urge to wrap your hands round someones throat can be overwhelming but you CAN move past it.

So why am I bringing this up?

In all honesty I’ve been triggered the past full week with all sorts of headf**kery and programmed bs. Due to having taken part in a webinar that really wasn’t the best thing for me in hindsight. The first part was great and semi-useful but the second half……

Lets just say it was a REALLY hard sell. Since then I’ve had tonnes of emails which I been ignoring but the programming went in.

I’ve been implementing all the new stuff for 2018 that I’ve been asked to sort out and these little mind worms have been undermining my progress.

“You can’t do this without help”………
“You don’t have formal training”………
“Do you need extra insurance and more outlays???”…………
“Are you really ready for this? Should you sign up and just do the course???”…….

You can see the pattern.

I finally twigged yesterday just what was going on. I wasn’t overly happy but rather than kick off I’ve gone in , removed it, blasted my energy system and started again.

Hit the re-set button

I had to go back to the original stage where I was asked to bring something forwards. What was it that resonated there and then? By going back to that I’ve re-set everything around it. To the point that I booked the first stage in this morning with no fuss, no drama and zero overthinking.

It was the overthinking that was driving me (and my poor friend who was getting my stupid panicked questions) absolutely demented. I was over thinking EVERY SINGLE DETAIL. It’s not a big thing. Its new for me but sure as hell not a big scary thing that my head was insisting it was.

It’s just a bit of planning. But because I’d let that programming in it was doing all the shouting, fretting and “look at it all I might miss something” bullshit thats been going on for me for almost a week.

Annoying – yes
Frustrating – yes
Going any further? Hell no, its been dealt with.

Like I said the trick is not reacting when you finally hear the penny drop. You really really want to react …..trust me its a human instinct to inflict what you’ve had back on the person who did it you you. But we know this achieves absolutely nothing in the long run so we stop, trace it back, release and dissolve back to source, reboot out energy and start again.

Intent not murder!

It doesn’t have to be a big complicated process it really can be made simple as its the intent you have that’s important.

But most important of all is if you do have a desire to react DON’T do it on social media. That old thing of once seen cannot be unseen.

Once triggered you can be a tad volatile

I saw something today that triggered me again. Now I know, or at least I hope, it wasn’t aimed at me and to be honest even if it was it doesn’t matter. What matters is the nerve it touched and the realisation that folk have absolutely no idea what others are going through at any given time.

To cast judgement based on one partial side of the story is pretty short sighted. There’s ALWAYS more going on than you can ever see visible.

Just remember to treat others how you would like to be treated yourself. That’s especially true on social media.

So if you get triggered get triggered. Just put in the work afterwards to get rid of whatever has come up for you to focus on for a while.

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It’s ok to get stuck

So I’ve been feeling quite a bit stuck recently and I’m feeling a few of you may be too. It isn’t necessarily a bad thing. It’s ok to get stuck.

Being stuck is usually a reminder to stop, be in the moment and stop pushing.

It’s very tempting when doing our own work to keep going and digging everytime something comes up. So we keep going, going deeper, discarding layer after layer until we hit the blocks we just can’t seem to get over or see past.

Frustrating isn’t it?

Now for some this is a time to simply stop as you’ve been overdoing it. Be aware that by constantly clearing etc you are actively looking for more layers you will keep finding them.

Stop.
Seriously just stop.

Take the time to allow all the good work you’ve done to integrate – then see how this new energy level or signature feels and looks.
Give it time to work with it rather than against it.
Take stock, have a sense check.
See what comes to mind or awareness.
Breeeeeeeeeeeeeathe.

Don’t railroad over it looking for the next thing. Take a pause, work with it, use it.

You might miss something beautiful in your rush.

For some others this can be a time to look for a little bit of assistance elsewhere – this may, for now, be a bit beyond your capabilities. Its nothing you won’t learn going forwards but its ok to ask for help. Just because you can do it all on your own doesn’t mean you HAVE to.

It’s not that we are expecting others to fix things for us – no we are looking to see what they can pick up beyond our sometimes blinkered view of our own world.

That other perspective can be highly illuminating as something we can’t see or keep skipping over is the thing we need to see. So use your discernment and if you need a helping hand ask your gut who to turn to – who to work with – or who to seek a bit of advice from.

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Does that make sense?

I go to others for a bit of help every now and then and what comes back to me can make my jaw hit the floor. By being so blinkered into my own view of things I miss whats just at the outside of my awareness.

Take these natural pauses to do other things, to do the day-to-day stuff, to live, to be a human BEING not a human DOING.

 

 

I can help

If you do feel stuck and are looking for a bit of help or a nudge in the right direction for you I am here to help.

Feel free to get in touch for a chat either on my FB page: https://www.facebook.com/dragonascensiontherapies/

Or by email: https://www.dragonascensiontherapies.co.uk/contact-me/

I have a few Dragon Energy services that might just do the trick as they are all about removing things that serve no purpose. If you haven’t worked with Dragon Energy before I would suggest one of the gentler options rather than the freight-train-trough-a-sheet-of-tissue-paper approach that is a Clearing!

https://www.dragonascensiontherapies.co.uk/energy-work/dragon-energy/

 

So grab those stuck times by the horns , enjoy the space, the peace, the void. And know that this too shall pass 

 

 

 

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Words of wisdom during a solar flare

There are times when my team give me some cracking words of wisdom, even during a solar flare.

These came through last night while I was replying to a comment on a closed group.

Essentially as the energy last night was a bit irritated/raw/borderline angry I was advised to put out a wee heads-up to step back and let things play out and then die out.

The exact words that channelled through were:

“Leave well alone and let things die down. Don’t add fuel to a dying fire and then complain about running out of water ……”

Subtle huh?

Now I’m sensitive to solar flares more so than lunar energies or planetary movement. This is in part due to the fire energy it comes from – I’m working with a LOT of fire energy recently and a solar flare on top of that can be a tad…combustible. It can blast out a lot of what has been bubbling under the surface – like a volcanic eruption. Which I was VERY aware of on social media.

What folks tend to forget is that social media is a very accurate real time indication of what’s going on energetically…..and I do pay attention.

So there you have it a glimmer of wisdom after so much chaos.

Working with dragons etc can be like herding feral cats but every now and again one curls up in your lap purring and makes all the scratches and complete frustration worth it.

 

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